The Heart of the Matter

What God Knows QuoteIn recent months, I have had a difficult time dealing with a certain person.

My inability, or desire, to interact with this person began to cause an issue with a person I am at peace with.

Finally, after many harsh words spoken, a lot of confusion and tears, I had to realize that all this time this situation was never about the other person.

It was always about me.

I always quote, “In life there are no mistakes, only lessons”, so what lesson is God trying to teach me in this hour of my life.

No matter what you say or do, some people will form an opinion of you, and there is nothing you can do to change it. Sometimes in trying, you are fighting a losing battle that will only leave you frustrated. Sometimes it is just better to stay SILENT.”

If I believe this is true, the heart of the matter (as much as I do not want to admit it) is that I am still placing too much emphasis on other’s opinion of me.

If you view me favorably, then praise God! However, if you have an issue with me that I feel is not “justified”; my fighting is really an attempt to prove to you that I am not who you say I am. I have fought this battle off and on for years!

In school if you keep failing the exams, you fail the course and so is the same in life.

The fact that it keeps coming up, says I still have not settled it within in myself that “what God KNOWS about me is infinitely more important than what others THINK about me.”

Right now, I do not know how I will settle it within myself that I have nothing to prove to anyone. Maybe, when I am tired of taking and failing the same test.

What I do know is that as I battle through this, God promised He will “never leave me, nor forsake (to quit or leave entirely; abandon; desert; to give up or renounce) me.”

Whatever you may be battling with, just know He promised you the same thing.  Find out the heart of matter causing the issue, and trust God to see you through.

He also promised us all things will work together for the good“. I know sometimes it does not look like good can come from a situation, but it can. “There are always flowers for those who want to see them.”

The bible declares, The end of a thing is better than its beginning.” Although, you and I may have failed a particular test many times, it is not how we start, but how we finish. Just press to finish the race!

I AM VICTORIOUS!  YOU ARE VICTORIOUS!  THIS TOO SHALL PASS!

If you liked this post, you may also like Silent Courage, and  Love the Skin You Are In.

~Keishawna J.
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It Takes a Village

Steve Job Quotes“The ones who think they are crazy enough to change the world, are the ones who do.” Steve Jobs

I recently learned of a tragic event involving two young boys. A 9-year-old boy was playing at the neighborhood playground with his brothers, when a 12-year-old boy approached them. The 12-year-old boy, without warning, stabbed the 9-year-old boy, who later died from his injuries.

After the stabbing, the 12-year-old calmly went to a neighbor’s house called the police and confessed. He waited patiently for the police and when they arrived, he turned himself in and said, “I want to die. I’m tired of life.” Continue reading

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Silent Courage

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In those moments immediately following her death, one thing I forgot is that “hurting people, hurt people.” Therefore, instead of having a disciplined response to the anger and drama directed at me by someone who was clearly hurting, I reacted. Continue reading

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We say we are waiting for the “perfect” moment or “perfect” timing to make the move.

But, what is the “perfect” moment? When is the “perfect” time?

Are you waiting for the “perfect” day, the “perfect” spouse, the “perfect” job, the “perfect” weight, or the “perfect” amount of money in your bank account? Continue reading

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We have all hoped for something. There are times that the thing in which we hoped for manifests in our lives. Then sometimes our hopes turn into disappointments. Continue reading

Live With Purpose On Purpose!

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My heart goes out to her three-year-old son who woke up today, as he will everyday for the rest of his life, without his mother.

There are conflicting stories as to what actually happened.  I am not writing to debate what did or did not happen.

I just want to remind everyone today how precious this life is that we have been blessed with. We should not take it for granted. Continue reading

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The Healing Power of Kindness

 The Healing Power of Kindness 2“The one who blesses others is abundantly blessed;  those who help others are helped.” Proverbs 11:25

The restaurant was crowded, but it was an all-you-can-eat buffet, so I should have expected it.

The table in front of me had four children sitting alone.  Their mother sat at the table next to them.  Consumed with the man sitting next to her, she paid no attention to what her children were doing.

I watched as these children brought plates of rolls, bowls of ice cream and plates of dessert to the table.  Without touching any of it, they left for more. Continue reading